(巻三十二)首とんで事をさまりぬ白椿(高橋将夫)
２月１１日金曜日
冬ながら空より花の散り来るは
雲のあなたは春にやあらむ(清原深養父)
朝窓越しに見下ろせば積雪少々だ。前回よりは薄い様だし水っぽいように見える。
シャープペンというのかメカニカル・ペンシルというのか、とにかく２Bの芯が切れてしまいＨBで間に合わせているが滑りが違う。
言霊を吐いてエンピツ削られる(南澤霧子)
耳から聴いて書き取るとなるとやはり鉛筆が優る。ボールペンでは滑りがよくない。
３時半過ぎにゴミ出しに下に降りたが雪は消えていた。
美しく消ゆるは難し残る雪(徳竹邦夫)
であるが、昨日の雪は始末のよい雪だった。
願い事－生死直結で叶えてください。コワクナイ、コワクナイ。兎に角サラッと消えたいものです。１５秒が希望たが１５分が無理なら意識不明で１５時間までに始末をつけて頂きたい。１５日は論外だ。
BBC Money Box Dementia & Money
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000vh58
0218
That's an important point, isn't it? You've got all the systems in place, but that doesn't mean you cannot run your own life while you are able to.
0229
That is correct, and I want to be independent as much as possible. And when I got into a mess with a bank quite recently, I was relieved, my family relieved ???(2)??? they would have been contacted by my son who ???(3)??? with the backup system that I have. I have this extra structure to back up my independence, really. When I developed the symptom of dementia, my son persuaded me to buy this app called “Banktivity”. You can pay your bills on line with it. You can track your spending patterns. You can maintain budgets. It will give you reports on anything you like instantaneously as to where you spent your money. And it helped you budgeting and I always know how much money I have in my bank accounts or on my credit cards even as far as the end of next month. And it's such a security to me to know that rather than just hope I've got enough money.
0326
Do you feel the banks, or are ???(4)??? dealing people with this condition, in a proper way or in a good way, do they have to processes to deal with you and your family efficiently?
0337
I have two bank accounts with two different banks, and one of them, because I told them I had dementia, gave me a number of one particular person that I could always contact, could always email them if I got into difficulties, and they would check things for me. And I have that for many years. It was very important to me and helped, but it's been one of the cuts. That's no longer there.
0401
Is there anything from your experience that you suggest that other people to follow if they or members of their family is going through something similar?
0410
We need to be honest with the bank. A lot of people don't like to admit that they have dementia. I hate using the phone and if I do I often end up in tears just cannot manage it. And then it gets annoyed with me. But if they have it on their system I have dementia, they treat me so well, it's lovely. So you need to tell them.
0429
